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NAMING OUR CHILDREN WAS NOT ACCIDENTAL

I truly believe that God is in the tiniest details of our creation, even when we do not believe we were inspired or that He possibly could be, yet somehow He is—involved in the work, our lives, and every step of the way, even down to our names.

“Before I formed you in the womb I knew you”  

Jeremiah 1:5.

In the Hebrew culture, the names of children were considered “the result of a partnership between their effort and God’s response.” The names given at birth are not accidental. They are to some extent, prophetic.

The importance of a mission individually, and as a family has been heavy on my mind. As a mother, I have children that struggle with their testimony and it weighs heavy on my mind how to help or rescue them. After learning about the importance of this particular part of our identity—our names, I wanted to see if my husband and I were ‘inspired’ and if there was something in the child’s name that could help them in their suffering or give them some more purpose and direction. As I have been studying each of them out—some taking hours, digging deep—I was able to see just how integrated their names, mission, and identity was/is. I found that some of the names even matched parts of their Patriarchal blessings and recent priesthood blessings. How could that be?

Every single name has a responsibility to ‘turn back to the fathers,’ and every single name has a mission to fulfill or attributes to live up to that fit them perfectly. For example, one child has the name of a martyr who defends Jesus Christ which has matched more than one blessing that they have had in their life. Another is a honeybee which is the symbol of Utah, and if you knew how that child’s heart is very much connected with Brigham Young—to stand with him and his great legacy here in Utah, you would see what I am talking about. Other children will defend religious freedom, help a prophet, and one known for physical strength like Porter Rockwell. Only one child out of our five were we told specifically to name, the other four children we never felt inspired as their names were chosen for different reasons, but can see how God was still directing the affairs of our family when we thought it was only us.

To preserve this Gospel heritage in future generations, God through our identity has turned the hearts of our children to the Father, and if they will listen and take their name seriously, it will give them the mission a few of them are looking for. What does the Lord expect of them to do? He expects them to play a part in the final scenes prior to His coming.

To help capture the hearts of your children turn them to their fathers, introduce them to their identity through their name, and see what it does in your home! I know for me, in the short few months of learning just how important the names of my children are, and how connected it is to their identity has anchored them. God truly does know us! He knows who I am and who you are meant to be and through our names, we become a partner with God to fulfill a mission in building up his Kingdom.

Author

  • Julie Smith is the Education Director for the Joseph Smith Foundation. She is the former owner of the Glenn J. Kimber Academy in Lehi, Utah. Julie served as a regional trainer—establishing 18 schools in Arizona, Idaho, and Utah. She is a certified teacher for The Thomas Jefferson Center for Constitutional Restoration (TJC) and taught the Making of America seminars written by W. Cleon Skousen and Glenn J. Kimber. Some of her children also traveled across the nation, assisting in teaching during these seminars. Julie taught history and Book of Mormon classes for 10 years. Julie is the mother of 5 children and grandmother to 7. She homeschooled for over 27 years, working through family challenges including pornography addiction, testimony faith crises, and teenage rebellion. She writes and teaches on strengthening the family, working with troubled youth, practically applying the teachings of scripture and the Prophet Joseph Smith, and celebrating higher standards. In her spare time, Julie also enjoys gardening, managing her .5-acre homestead, and hosting Sunday dinners with her family! Her home is a revolving door of guests and friends as her family hosts cultural celebrations and teaching events.

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